WHEN LIFE SPINS BEYOND
Your CONTROL,
the Real Question isn’t WHY ME?
—It’s WHAT NOW?

No two stories unravel the same way.
No two hearts hold grief in quite the same shape.
You’ve done everything “right.”
And still—so much has slipped beyond your reach.
The unpredictability of infertility—
or any deep life rupture—can feel unrelenting.
You’re strong. That’s not in question.
But even strength needs somewhere to rest.
Somewhere to soften.
With trauma-informed, compassionate support,
I help you live inside the unknown—
without losing yourself to it.
Words from My Clients

HI, I’M LEILA
You WON’T FIND any HOLLOW REASSURANCE here
Or WELL-MEANING OPTIMISM
DRESSED UP as ADVICE
Because I’ve been on the receiving end of:
“Just relax.”
“Stay positive.”
“Have you tried…?”
And I know how quickly words meant to help can land like silence—or worse.
True healing doesn’t come from forcing hope. It comes from turning toward what hurts—honestly, with support.
As a certified Compassionate Inquiry® practitioner, I offer a space to meet yourself with gentleness, to move through uncertainty with courage, to speak what hasn’t been spoken— and feel what’s long been held in.
Compassion here doesn’t rush your pain. It sits beside it. And it reminds you: this is not all of who you are.
Who I Help
All of my sessions—private, couples, and group—are gender-inclusive, trauma-informed, and deeply respectful of your lived reality.
You are welcome here if you are:
- Navigating infertility—your own or your partner’s
- Living with the aftermath of reproductive challenges or loss
- Holding the invisible weight of medical interventions, uncertainty, or grief
- Feeling untethered by a life shift that’s changed your sense of identity and connection
You are welcome here.
What We Work Through Together
- $ 100
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01.
The IDENTITY CRISIS of INFERTILITY & Major
Life ShiftsWhen everything you believed about your body, your future, or your worth starts to unravel—
we begin the work of remembering who you are underneath it all.
- $ 100
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02.
LOSING a SENSE of CONTROL
We gently explore the patterns you’ve clung to for safety.
We meet your coping with compassion.
And we find steadiness—even when nothing feels certain.
- $ 100
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03.
Emotional Triggers & Unexpected Grief
This isn’t just about outcomes.
It’s about the grief no one warned you about.
The ache that lives in doctor’s offices, waiting rooms,
and conversations that collapse into clichés.
- $ 100
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04.
The Ripple Effect on Relationships
When this struggle starts touching everything—your partner, your friendships, your connection to yourself—
we work on finding language, safety, and new ways of being with each other.
And so much more
Because your experience won’t fit into a framework.
And neither will your healing.

WHEN is the RIGHT TIME
to SEEK SUPPORT?
Wherever you are in this journey—
we start there.
AT THE BEGINNING
You’ve just received a diagnosis.
The words are still echoing.
The plans you had for your future feel like they’ve been rewritten
without your consent.
You may be starting IVF or treatment,
but your body feels foreign, your thoughts fast,
and everything inside you is saying—
“This is too much.”
IN THE MIDDLE
You’ve been here for months—maybe years
The appointments, the waiting, the quiet disappointments…
they’ve started to feel like a second life.
You’re asking hard questions now.
How much more can I give?
How much more can I carry?
There’s grief. Jealousy. Exhaustion.
And an ache that’s hard to speak aloud.
AT A CROSSROADS
You’re not sure what’s next.
Continue? Pause? Stop entirely?
Or maybe you’ve conceived,
but the joy hasn’t arrived the way you expected.
Grief is still knocking.
The past hasn’t let go.
Or maybe you’re beginning to redefine
what life could look like
with or without the outcome you once imagined.
You don’t need to wait for clarity to begin this work.
You just need enough courage to take one honest breath.
We can start from there.
No matter where you are on your journey,
I’m ready to meet you there.
Let’s connect.
